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Are You Shoulding All Over Yourself?

Monday, August 29, 2016

Are You “Should-ing” All Over Yourself?

If the word “shoulding” sounds familiar to you, it could be that you heard it from Carrie Bradshaw, the main character in TV’s Sex and the City series.

What Carrie Said about “Should” in Sex and the City

To quote the Season 6 episode, Carrie said,

“I wondered if should was another disease plaguing women. Did we want babies and perfect honeymoons?...…Why are we should-ing all over ourselves?”

Indeed! Saying “I do” in marriage, having babies, and paying a mortgage are not the dreams of every woman. There is no single “ideal” for us ladies, but, instead, we all have our unique dreams and passions.

The “Should-ing” of Society

But our society does put pressure on women to fit into a certain mold – an image that society has created for us.

Sometimes you may think you should be settling down or buying a home or buying an investment property because your friends are, even when the voice deep inside you tells you that’s not what you really want to do. How many times have you heard society screaming in your head: “By now you should have bought a property and have put a dent in your investment portfolio”…you can even see the wagging of the finger of an authority figure in your mind.

You should NOT let your family, society or well meaning friends dictate what you do in your personal and professional life, so long as you are doing what satisfies you. So, step away from the pressures of people around you and instead look within to decide how you want to spend your time.

Finances, Goals, and the Authentic You

Then, start to save money toward the goals that truly matter to you, regardless of whether it is what your friends and relatives want for you or not. It’s all about YOU and not what you should or should not be doing. Be genuine and go for it!

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